Let me start of by answering a very important question you may have had about me from the very beginning:
QUESTION: What make me a QUALIFIED AUTHORITY on the topic of dating?
ANSWER: I am not the Brad Pitt, Matthew McConaughey, George Clooney, Tyson Beckford, or Will Smith types (sure wouldn’t hurt to have their money though), so I DO KNOW EXACTLY what it is like to face rejection. I DO NOT get every woman I try to hook-up with.
On that same note, I DO have very good luck with women, have been with and STILL DO hook-up with multiple women, so I DO speak from experience.
And on that note, I must tell you that I am not in search of love right this moment. I am still relatively young (between 21-35 🙂, and there are just too many fine ladies out there to choose just one.
You have to understand that not everyone is meant to be with/want to be with the same person forever. You get tired of dating the same woman the same way you get tired of friends and family members.
AND THAT’S WHAT THE WHOLE CONCEPT OF “DATING” IS ALL ABOUT
Since it’s a good chance you will not find your “soul mate” with the first woman you meet, dating introduces you to different women until you find the one for you (or a very close fit).
But keep in mind, you may feel she is your soul mate, but she secretly may not feel the same about you, no matter how long you’ve been dating.
It is what it is.
If you ARE looking for love, there is DEFINITELY nothing wrong with that. Just don’t fall in love with the first woman you meet.
Open yourself up to new ideas. Your soul mate may not even be of the same RACE as you; You soul mate may just as well be FROM or IN ANOTHER COUNTRY!
(That’s right! We haven’t even touched on the subject of international dating!)
So to sum things up: Meet women, have fun, but be safe (sexually)! If you are a one-woman man, then stick to what works for you. Don’t change on the account of me.
JUST TRYING GIRLS OUT YALL!
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